Published in The Startup·PinnedMember-only“I Hope You’re Well” Can Be a Terrible Thing to SayIt’s hard to know what to say these days. Heck, it’s hard for most of us to know how to feel. So it is no surprise that our normal ways of communicating are being tested, much like all the “normal ways” of life B.Co. (Before Coronavirus/COVID-19). One of those normal…Relationships8 min read
Published in The Startup·PinnedMember-onlyThe 3 Rules for Writing in a Time of UncertaintyIt is a difficult time to be a human in the world right now. Not insurmountable, but there are challenges. Aside from a sweeping global pandemic virus that currently has no cure, there is the social distancing and isolation, abrupt changes to schedules and lifestyles, fear for health and financial…Writing8 min read
Jul 6, 2021Member-onlyWaging War on Your Writing Demons“What you’re supposed to do when you don’t like a thing is change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” ― Maya Angelou, Wouldn’t Take Nothing for My Journey Now Stop me if you’ve heard this before (and by heard, I mean uttered it…Writing4 min read
Jun 29, 2021Member-onlyThe Medal Stand at the Suffer Olympics“I’m convinced that empathy is more powerful than hate and that our lives should be dedicated to making it go viral.” ― Zak Ebrahim, The Terrorist’s Son: A Story of Choice. I’ve had a few opportunities in the past couple of years to “go viral” on Twitter. It’s supposed to…Empathy4 min read
Published in The Startup·Jun 22, 2021Member-onlyWhat Would Anthony Bourdain Think of Food Bloggers?“Food is everything we are. It’s an extension of nationalist feeling, ethnic feeling, your personal history, your province, your region, your tribe, your grandma. It’s inseparable from those from the get-go.” ― Anthony Bourdain This post is in honor of Anthony Bourdain’s birthday on June 25th. In recent years there…Food Blogging6 min read
Jun 15, 2021Member-onlyApply The Socratic Paradox to Your Writing to Make It Better“…although I do not suppose that either of us knows anything really beautiful and good, I am better off than he is — for he knows nothing, and thinks that he knows. I neither know nor think that I know.” ― Socrates (v. Plato in Apology) Ok, so Socrates may…Writing3 min read
Jun 1, 2021Member-onlySometimes You Need to Scorch Everything to the Ground“Sometimes you need to scorch everything to the ground, and start over. After the burning the soil is richer, and new things can grow. People are like that, too. They start over. They find a way.” ― Celeste Ng, Little Fires Everywhere There’s a quote that has been tossed around…Writing3 min read
Published in The Startup·May 25, 2021Member-onlyThe Yo-Yo Writing Effect“One thing is for sure — you will make mistakes. Learn to learn from them. Learn to forgive yourself. Learn to laugh when everything falls apart because, sometimes, it will.”―Vironika Tugaleva, The Art of Talking to Yourself Perhaps you are one of those people who have had to go on…Writing3 min read
May 18, 2021Member-onlyThe Elephant in the Writers Room“When great trees fall, rocks on distant hills shudder, lions hunker down in tall grasses, and even elephants lumber after safety.” — Maya Angelou, “When Great Trees Fall” I heard a story (parable, fable … whatever you want to call it!) the other day that I had never heard before. …Emotional Intelligence3 min read
May 4, 2021Member-onlyNot Everything You Do Has to Be “Original Creative Work”“Anyhow, the older I get, the less impressed I become with originality. These days, I’m far more moved by authenticity. Attempts at originality can often feel forced and precious, but authenticity has quiet resonance that never fails to stir me.” ― Elizabeth Gilbert, Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear How…Creativity3 min read